3/5 Trust The Man
  by Southern Belle (Omaha, NE USA)
As with The TV Set, the only reason for watching this movie is David Duchovny. He's always great to look at. He does his best with a stupid script. Again, his female costar, Julianne Moore, is much less physically attractive than he is. Of course, by now, anyone who reads these reviews knows that I'm partial to Tea Leoni and Gillian Anderson.

3/5 2.5 stars out of 4
  by One-Line Film Reviews (Easton, MD)
The Bottom Line:

As one of the three or four people in America who saw this movie in theatres, I am qualified to say that Trust the Man is really not worth spending money on; however, it should be said that while the film is forgettable and formulaic, it also offers enough laughs that you could do worse if one of your friends suggests watching it.

3/5 Trust the Man is a Waste of Talent.
  by G. Merritt (Boulder, CO)
Trust the Man is a 2006 relationship film that wastes the talents of David Duchovny (The X-Files; Californication), Billy Crudup (Almost Famous), Julianne Moore (Boogie Nights; Magnolia) and Maggie Gyllenhaal (Secretary) on fart jokes. Set in Manhattan, it examines two troubled relationships. Rebecca (Moore) is a film actress married to Tom (Duchovny), a sex addict who gave up his career in advertising to become a stay-at-home dad. They meet with their ear-ringed therapist (played by Garry Shandling) once a year to discuss their unhappy sex life. Tom is into porn. Rebecca has no libido. Their best friends are Rebecca's brother Tobey (Crudup), a copywriter, and his girlfriend, Elaine (Gyllenhaal). Elaine longs for marriage and children, but Tobey has commitment issues and no emotional maturity. Despite a few entertaining scenes, Trust the Man falls short of Woody Allen's lesser work. It offers no new insights into modern relationships. With so much acting talent, I expected so much more from this film.

G. Merritt

4/5 Better than I expected...
  by Reviewer (United States)
...based on the reviews here. Much of the credit for my surprise should go to the cast: all very good. I find it interesting to watch excellent actors (Moore, Duchovny, Barkin) flesh out new characters. Overall, despite flaws, this film is intelligent, and fresh just often enough to be worth watching. I cared about the fate of the two couples, particularly the Gyllenhall/Crudup duo. Sure, there were cliches, as in another parody of 12-Step and other support groups, and the "biological clock ticking" bit. However, as in the case of the latter, there's truth at the heart of many of these. If Trust the Man ended a bit more "Hollywood"/all loose ends resolved, I'd have thrown my shoe at the screen. Anyway, here's one little negative postcript: Amazon makes it look like the magnetic Ellen Barkin has a major role - unfortunately, not the case.

5/5 If you can't relate to this movie and or find humor in it...
  by B. Sidorowicz
then your either a robot from the planet lame, or your too uptight to have a pulse in your veins.

Now I'm not a fan of romantic comedies, and I'm not sure I can even classify this movie with that term, but this was for lack of other words... Awesome! I found myself laughing hysterically throughout and relating to many of the characters and the situations or predicaments they found themselves in. In essence, I can pretty much connect most of my friends to characters in this movie, and can easily say that I've been in a few of these situations (not relating to deli meats). Maybe it's these personal connections I felt throughout that made this film so spot on in terms of how it dealt with the trials and tribulations of relationships and friendships, or maybe it was the wit and irreverent sarcasm... Either way it just works.

I was and still am pretty awestruck by the fact that so many people actually complained about this movie and/or just didn't get it. Which is probably the main reason I'm writing a review. Are you people serious? The only people I can't see enjoying this movie are; people with no sense of humor, people expecting lovey dovey crap that feel misled, or people that are easily offended (at what I'm not sure). The movie isn't meant to be taken too seriously. In a way the movie is like the Billy Crudup character in itself (guy with the bad goatee). It steers away from the difficulties of reality when things get too real. It finds the humor in a bad or uncomfortable situation, and in the end makes you laugh and appreciate all the ups and downs life has to offer. So, enough of the over-analytical deep diving, but it seems to be in fashion here.

If your a fan of the "How I Met Your Mother" style of relationship humor, you've got your awesomely awesome movie equivalent (including those serious episodes where Lilly leaves Marshall, but in the end they get married, and Barney is there to provide the legen... wait for it... keep waiting for it... and I hope you not lactose intolerant DAIRY, LEGEN-DAIRY color commentary).

So there you have it. Quit your "can't say that word here," grab a deli sandwich, and enjoy the movie for what it is. Your bound to laugh, and see yourself or one your friends in there.