4/5 loved the movie
  by Gretchen Vanduzer-ludovice (Germany)
This movie was so funny and the scenes in the movie just took my breathe away.

4/5 In and Out is Out and Out funny
  by Christopher W. Humphrey
If any comedies with Kevin Kline have gone wrong, this Frank Oz (!) vehicle isn't one of them. With a plot that could have gone to absurdity, this is a charmer that actually is a heart-warmer as well. Kevin veers between calm and nervous breakdown as the news spreads, Joan Cusack delivers a character in Emily that's fun to watch ("IS EVERYBODY GAY!!!???") and even Bob Newhart delivers some deadpan laughs. Oh, did I mention the only really steamy kiss in the film belongs to Kline and Tom Selleck? (whoa)And Kevin's dance number to "I Will Survive" is priceless. This is a good way to spend 90 minutes.

3/5 2.5 stars out of 4
  by One-Line Film Reviews (Easton, MD)
The Bottom Line:

In and Out is humming along merrily before a gut-wrenchingly awful scene in the school's auditorium grinds the pleasantly-amusing comedy to a screeching halt; if I think a little I can remember the scenes in the film that made me laugh, but the first thing that comes to mind is that shamelessly terrible and agonizingly long sequence near the end.

4/5 Great cast
  by N. W. Carle (Sedalia MO)
An amusing and tender-hearted take on self-discovery and acceptance of differences. Every cast member is terrific: Kline at his best, Cusack incredibly funny, Reynolds seniorly sparkling, and Newhart -- well, Newhart.

2/5 Average.
  by ADRIENNE MILLER (TENNESSEE)
In & Out starring Kevin Kline is a pretty tame and predictable film. Kline is a talented actor so his performance is clever and memorable but the plot and jokes fall flat, everyone raved about this film when it was released in 1997, but I found this "coming out" story completely shallow and lifeless. Matt Dillion is also good in this, wish his character was in the film more. So-so comedy that left me bored, decide for yourself.